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(Editor’s Observe, this letter was written earlier than Doc’s loss of life in August, 2020 however nonetheless related as Doc’s rules are timeless).
Hey Doc,
Right here’s the state of affairs. A number of months again I met Rosalee. She’d simply gotten out of a 12-year marriage and had belief points with males. She had a male greatest buddy who lived along with her, and he or she claimed it was strictly platonic. This man works on offshore rigs right here in Louisiana and is gone a great deal of the time.
At first the connection was onerous. Rosalee would by no means go on dates with me and even give me the time of day. Essentially the most I bought have been just a few textual content messages and telephone calls right here and there. Throughout this time, my father handed away and the one individual there for me was Rosalee. Whereas she had excessive belief points, she advised me that she preferred me and made a visit out to my job simply to see me. We spent a while collectively and bought romantic. However she would all the time disguise the truth that we have been courting from the world. I observed that when her platonic roommate would name her that she would dart off to a different room or go outdoors to speak to him.
In any occasion, we carried on with our relationship till her roommate got here again onshore. All the pieces halted for us and he or she started to go all over the place with him. She blew off our deliberate weekend collectively so she might trip with him. She knew I used to be upset, and he or she referred to as me to speak about it, however she went anyway.
When she returned, Rosalee appeared hooked up to me and wished to be round me extra typically, simply not in entrance of her roommate. It turned out that the roommate advised her that he cherished her extra than simply as a buddy and wished to be her boyfriend. She advised me that this made her uncomfortable, however she nonetheless appeared to love him greater than me. Finally he went again offshore and he or she wished to spend extra time with me.
Rosalee all the time tells me that I’m the one, her soul mate, and that we are supposed to be collectively ceaselessly. She advised me she was over her dedication points and wished us to be collectively, however she nonetheless hides our relationship from her associates and advised her platonic roommate that I used to be solely a buddy as nicely.
Lately Rosalee mentioned a member of the family broke her coronary heart and that she felt numb, however she advised me she cherished me and that we have been nonetheless an merchandise. However she has not texted me or returned any of my textual content messages. I’m at a degree the place I don’t know if I need to be with this woman or not or if she’s definitely worth the time wasted.
What ought to I do, and the way ought to I am going about doing it? The final time we talked Rosalee and I have been in a relationship, however I can’t determine her out. Please assist me.
Dane – who’s exhausted by all of it
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