4th March 2024

It’s time once more for “Pricey Wendy Updates,” a function the place folks I’ve given recommendation to prior to now tell us whether or not they adopted the recommendation and the way they’re doing now. As we speak we hear from “Able to Block,” whose pal John had gone off his meds for schizoaffective dysfunction and was abusing different substances. She mentioned that he was making her uncomfortable and he or she was debating blocking him however feared he’d discover methods to contact and harass her. Right here’s her replace:

“I did find yourself blocking him. I felt that I had no selection. Whereas I really feel horrible for John’s struggling, I simply couldn’t take care of at all times strolling on eggshells round him. I dealt together with his drama for over ten years, and I’m accomplished. Fortunately he hasn’t tried to contact me. I admit that I do have a lingering feeling of dread that he’ll. None of our mutuals have mentioned him, which has type of stunned me. I assume he should have burnt by way of these bridges as properly. I don’t hate him. I do want for him to be completely satisfied, however I can not take care of the strolling on eggshells and verbal abuse from him.”

 
You probably did the appropriate factor. Hope for the perfect for John and benefit from the peace his absence in your life helps to supply.
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In the event you’re somebody I’ve given recommendation to prior to now, I’d love to listen to from you, too. E-mail me at wendy@dearwendy.com with a hyperlink to the unique put up, and let me know whether or not you adopted the recommendation and the way you’re doing now.
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